-Anja R
I have had the privilege of working with Virginia throughout all stages of recovering from an eating disorder. When we began working together, I was critically ill and needed her support in transitioning to and from inpatient settings. Virginia has always shone as a member of my health care team, and she facilitated prompt and clear communication between many moving parts during that era.
While very proficient at working within the system, Virginia provided context and grace that validated my struggles. This is another of Virginia’s standout strengths: the ability to step back and widen the lens, whether the topic is eating disorder treatment, neurodivergence, or diet culture. In doing so, she has consistently helped me cultivate self-compassion.
She has also been a tether to the important principles that helped me find my way in recovery. Because diet culture and disordered eating are such powerfully-held, entrenched parts of ourselves (and, as Virginia will always remind me, our whole society), it is almost impossible to let them go without something else to fill their place. After a lifetime of hating my body, I wanted very badly for that “something” to be rooted in anti-oppressive thinking, such as the body liberation movement. But I would not have been able to get there without Virginia’s help. She embodies those principles with grace, wisdom and a wonderful laugh.
By nature, I am not the most radical of individuals. I sometimes struggle to integrate new thought processes if the teaching party comes across as heavy-handed or sanctimonious. Fortunately Virginia is never that. Instead she is exceptionally skilled at bringing her own lived experience to the table as a tool for growing and relating. Of all the many health professionals I have seen over the years, she has achieved the best balance of effective personal disclosure and thoughtful boundary-keeping.
She is very supportive of clients’ processes and welcomes feedback. This is a revolutionary way of building agency and personal empowerment in a treatment world that often discounts client voices. It facilitates a collaborative, invested path towards healing.
It has now been over 20 months since I graduated to outpatient care, which is a sentence I never thought I would write. But with Virginia’s help, I have been able to nurture recovery even while navigating significant real-life obstacles.
I whole-heartedly recommend Virginia if you are looking for a different kind of dietitian, one who will help you examine the systemic causes of illness while building your personal toolkit for healthy resistance. Her systems-based approach is especially well-suited for recovering individuals who are hungry for food and body justice.